10 Ways to Make Real Friends

Posted on February 15, 2008 
Filed Under Communication, Life


Spending time with oneself in some fruitful introspection is something that many people want for, but unhappily do not find time for the same. When this solitude becomes loneliness, it can get problematic. Finding original friends is not at all hard provided you hold an available psyche and be sure of yourself. Always remember that tomorrow’s friends are in fact today’s strangers. So if you are looking for tips for making new friends, read further tips.

We take some ideas and suggestions for how to have real friends:

  1. - Look accessible. You need not dress up in dandy clothes or wear loud make up10 Ways to Make Real Friends to attract people. More than artificial make up, simplicity attracts people. Smile often, make eye contact, do not look too tensed and listen to what others have to say.
  2. - Accept people the way they are. Unneeded faultfinding, critically analyzing each individual will not work if you want to make new friends. No one is perfect; you are not either. Everyone has faults and the way to make friends is by looking at the positive aspects of the individual. In case you do not like someone’s behavior, it is better to avoid than create a rivalry.
  3. - Create your own opportunities. For example: begin a neighborhood weekly or monthly potluck meal; join or organize a walking club; volunteer to help with a local organization; organize a discussion group on literature,religion, or politics; get a dog and take it for walks; teach someone a hobby or skill, (woodworking, needlework, etc.) Read more

    Internet Pitfalls: Dangers of Online Dating

    Posted on February 8, 2008 
    Filed Under Communication


    The Internet is just another way for men and women to meet. On the Internet, you have to be prepared for the added risk of meeting someone who will do hurt to you. This does not mean that you should not take the risk. Of course you can—just keep your eyes as open as your heart.

    • Watch out for lies and embellishments There are certain things which peopleDangers of Online Dating commonly lie about within their profile. The most common include: Height, weight, age, and occupation. Also be aware that people may embellish a little bit about themselves to make themselves sound better. For example, they may over exaggerate their travel experience, college education, etc… As mentioned before, even some pictures can’t be trusted. Some people use old photos of themselves because they looked better back then. Most important, be aware that some people lie about their relationship status. Married people have been known to state they are single on online dating sites.
    • Be careful about sharing your email As mentioned, most online dating sites allow you to use an anonymous internal communication system. Make sure you take full advantage of that. If you do start to feel comfortable with someone and would like to share an email address with them, don’t use your regular email address. Set up a free email address that you use strictly for your online dating activities. You can easily obtain one through yahoo, hotmail, gmail, etc… Read more

      Laws of Attractions: Make Yourself Irresistible to Women - A Simple Tutorial

      Posted on November 27, 2007 
      Filed Under Life, Psychology


      You don’t need a Porche, yacht, guitar, rock-hard abs, or even a full head of hair to make a great impression on a woman. Follow these tips, and she will want to hear from you again real soon:

      - Listen more, talk less. I’m not suggesting that you let her do all the talking, butattractions some guys meet a woman and then never shut up. Do not try to impress her! Don’t brag about your GPA at Harvard, the Jag in your driveway, or the fact that you’re CEO of a tuna fish conglomerate. You will get precisely the kind of woman you do not want, the one who is only into you for your achievements and possessions, rather than for who you really are. Instead, ask questions and listen for the answers. Give your opinions. Get to know the woman. Let her get to know you.

               - Donate your time or money. Find a glitzy nonprofit—something involving art, music, or theater. It’ll add more events to your social calendar, more clout to your character, and more valid opportunities to meet professional

      - Go out with another woman. If you are going out to a club or a bar, take a female friend or your sister with you. Women are often more amenable to talking to men who are with other women. It gives them the feeling that you actually like women, and that is attractive. If your female friend is outgoing, see if she will make small talk with somebody you would like to meet. She can say something along the lines of, “I love your necklace!” and that should do it. After a little back-and-forth, your friend can say, “Oh, how rude of me. This is my friend Andy,” and you are in business.                                                                                                                                       Read more

      Top Tips for Successful Online Dating

      Posted on October 19, 2007 
      Filed Under Life, Personal Development


      It’s important to take a look at statistics of people who use online dating, to better get a feel for what you should expect.When it comes to men who use online dating sites they rank physical appearance at the top of their list.Women, on the other hand, claim they are more attracted to a man with an excellent personality above the man’s appearance. Most online dating sites have more single women as members, than men.However, women get more messages per day than men.online dating tips

      Women are looking for men with a great sense of humor. Men, on the other hand, are looking for women younger than themselves. However, most women are looking for older men than themselves. Except for middle-aged women; they usually are interested in younger men. Most people who use online dating sites claim to be just looking for no-strings relationships.However, there are a lot who are looking for serious relationships.

      Now that you know a little more about the statistics involved with members at the online dating sites, it’s time to talk about how you can set yourself apart and land the ideal person for your ideal relationship.

      Profile name

      Your profile name is one of the first things you’re going to have to consider when you sign up at an online dating site.When it comes to a profile name you should choose something that is concise, descriptive, and attention grabbing.It can be something about your personality or your occupation.However, some occupations will work better than others. For example, FireFighterGuyinReno is a good screen name. A lot of women are drawn to guys who are firefighters. You are telling them what you do and what city you are in.However, AccountantManinReno just doesn’t quite have the same efffect, does it?There’s nothing wrong with being an accountant, but it’s just really not considered interesting and exciting.In this stiuation, you’d be better off using a great personality or physical trait. Something like,IrishBlueEyedGuyinReno.With this screen name, you’re building interest from girls who may beIrish or likeIrish guys.You’re also attracting girls who like guys with blue eyes and they know you’re inReno.Don’t be afraid to look at some other member’s names to find something you like and make it your own.                                                                          

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      She has a blog: Olive Riley, 107 year old - Australia’s - “Star of the Internet”

      Posted on October 18, 2007 
      Filed Under Panorama


      Olive Riley, a remarkable 107-year-old great-great-grandmother living in an aged care hostel at Woy Woy, 50 miles (80km) north of Sydney, has won

      Olive Riley, 107 blog

      instant fame as the oldest of the world’s 68.9 million Internet bloggers. She is 12 years older than Spain’s Señora Maria Amélia, the previous titleholder.

      • “This might be the new star of the internet,” Jean-François Berthet, who lives in Paris, wrote in his blog 365 Days. “Her name is Olive, she is Australian and she has a blog where with the help of Mike, she tells us of her adventures.

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