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Laws of Attractions: Make Yourself Irresistible to Women – A Simple Tutorial

27 November 2007 5 Comments

You don’t need a Porche, yacht, guitar, rock-hard abs, or even a full head of hair to make a great impression on a woman. Follow these tips, and she will want to hear from you again real soon:

- Listen more, talk less. I’m not suggesting that you let her do all the talking, butattractions some guys meet a woman and then never shut up. Do not try to impress her! Don’t brag about your GPA at Harvard, the Jag in your driveway, or the fact that you’re CEO of a tuna fish conglomerate. You will get precisely the kind of woman you do not want, the one who is only into you for your achievements and possessions, rather than for who you really are. Instead, ask questions and listen for the answers. Give your opinions. Get to know the woman. Let her get to know you.

         - Donate your time or money. Find a glitzy nonprofit—something involving art, music, or theater. It’ll add more events to your social calendar, more clout to your character, and more valid opportunities to meet professional

- Go out with another woman. If you are going out to a club or a bar, take a female friend or your sister with you. Women are often more amenable to talking to men who are with other women. It gives them the feeling that you actually like women, and that is attractive. If your female friend is outgoing, see if she will make small talk with somebody you would like to meet. She can say something along the lines of, “I love your necklace!” and that should do it. After a little back-and-forth, your friend can say, “Oh, how rude of me. This is my friend Andy,” and you are in business.                                                                                                                                      

- Become a regular at some place plush. Find a hip, bustling bar or restaurant in your hood and go once a week—with friends, with coworkers, or alone. Tip well. After a month, you will have a rapport with the staff that, at best, could lead to introductions and invitations. At the least, it will impress a date when you finally take one there.

- Look women in the eye. It seems elementary, but you would be surprised at how many guys either undress a woman with their eyes or avoid eye contact altogether. Women love it when you look them in the eye.

- Find out her interests. Get her talking about what she is crazy about, whether itattractions is David Bowie or the New York Mets. If you do not get it, you can say something like, “You know, I’m not too familiar with Bowie. Or, “I’m more into football than baseball. What is it about baseball that you like?” Ask a woman her opinion, and you will have her eating out of your hand (we have more in common with people than you think).

         - Be optimistic. In other words, this is no time to discuss how oil prices are going through the roof, what a witch your ex-girlfriend was, or that your parents never gave you enough attention. If you run out of things to talk about, ask her if she’s seen the latest hit at the box office.

- Call her. If you said you were going to call, you can avoid looking desperate by waiting two days, but no longer. A plea on behalf of the female sex: If you are not interested in a woman, do not-I repeat-do not say you will call. Say, “Nice meeting you,” and be on your way. Besides, collecting numbers to feed your ego is somewhat sad.

- Treat women as you would have them treat you. The media have brainwashed us to believe that men come and women come different planets, but we are all human. Some of the biggest losers in love are women who complain that all men are the same; they all want one thing, and so on. However, it is equally sad when a person assumes all women are like his mother or his psychopathic ex-girlfriend. You will enjoy astonishing success with women if you understand two simple facts: We are people. We are more like you than you think.

- Renovate a room. Find women in the world of interior decorating. From looking for furniture to picking out paint to browsing light fixtures, you will be surrounded by single ladies. Breaking the ice is as easy as asking her opinion.

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