10 Tips to Recharge Your Sex Life
There is no need for drastic changes to recharge your sexlife. In fact, through following some of the simple suggestions below, you will probably supercharge your sex life without knowingly doing it:
1.Work OutWorking out helps create a sexy body. It gives you the energy and stamina to
have sex for long periods of time. It gives you flexibility to get into some of those positions you`ve often wondered about. You feel better about yourself when you work out causing you to be able to get in the mood more often. Couples working out together can create a tighter bond in their relationship. Couples working away jointly can produce a tighter bail in their relationship. Working away too boosts your self-respect which is a crucial part to having a better sexuality living.
2.Communicate Challenge yourself to give very specific requests to your partner to perform sexual pleasures. Use only verbal instructions, without showing them or touching them. Don’t ever give up. This is a great exercise to learn to see the results of what you are communicating.
3. Play games If you want to lighten things up a bit or bring about a little variety to your sex life, play a sex game. There are plenty of games you can buy at game stores or online that will stimulate anyone’s fancy. You can play them one-on-one or you can play with a group of people. They can be fun and arousing. They are designed to break up any nervous tension you might have about trying new things.
4.Positions There are hundreds, if not thousands of books on the various sexual
positions. Every bedroom should be equipped with at least one. When you get bored with your more “typical” positions, you can simply go to the book and find something new to try together. Sometimes it may be just for the fun or challenge of it and wont necessarily lead to orgasm. Trying new positions together may generate laughter and is also a form of bonding and intimacy.
5. MusicThere are all types of music and ways that it can help in the sex department. During the physical sex act itself, just the rhythm of music can synchronize your internal physiological state and cause you to be in perfect timing with each other. Music can create the mood for sex. Very relaxing music can also create an atmosphere of peace and calm which can be a nice setting for sex. Additionally the words within some songs trigger emotions and feelings of sensuality.
6. Wear sexy clothes Do you find yourself getting comfortable in the company of your partner, wearing oversized around-the-house clothing. Do you remember how you dressed when you first met? There’s something sexy about dressing up for each other. It shows care and consideration and when you put some effort into how you look, like it did when you first met.
7. Freshen up Good hygiene is important and sexy. It’s a great habit to always be prepared to be kissed all over your body. Make sure your mouth is clean and that your genitals are clean. You never know when you’ll be caught in the mood and it’s so much nicer for the kisser and as well as the one being kissed to know that you are clean and fresh.
8. Practice deep breathing You can actually get a little more stimulation just from the
way you breath. You can take in a deep breath and imagine as you are inhaling, sending the breath down to your genitals. It is amazing what happens. You can not only increase the feelings of stimulation, but you wake up the kundilini (Sexual) energy. Some people can have orgasms by deep breathing with no other stimulation at all.
9.Take time for yourself It takes energy to be around other people. Sometimes we feed off of each others energy. Other times it’s out of balance and so the demands of being around another person or the same person all the time can take it.
10.Look into each others eyes That’s right, it’s okay to peek when you’re kissing and especially when you are making love. Try to keep your eyes open and look into your partners eyes right at the point of orgasm. Always look into your partners eyes when speaking with them.
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